Sunflowers N Sunshine

Tuesday, April 19, 2005

just finished my tuesday tv. the o.c. seth cowen is so cute. he is just a joker and his comments are so cute! and summer is real hot like everytime i watch an episode, she keeps looking better everytime. but i figure i dont really fancy rachel bilson in any other role. just as summer from o.c. anyway the reason i decided to blog is becoz at the end of the episode, seth and ryan were walking around on the love day. so naturally, everyone in the background was lovey dovey and holding roses and what nots. and seth passed this comment bout how everyone looked so lovey and had normal relationships. but that is how every relationship looks on the surface dont you think. i am not saying that people are stuck in a dump of a relationship that they cant get out of. all i am saying is that every pair is bound to have their fair share of problems. and somehow no matter how well two people fit together if they do not have some squabbles and bumps along the road then something is definately wrong. i mean like thats the thing about relationships. sometimes it is about giving in and compromise. i think the essential thing about relationships is not to loose yourself as an individual. i mean you should still be you. thats the funny thing. u spend so much time with your significant other that you cannot help but to pick up habits and this and thats. and the reason you fancy another is because it is everything you want in a person. but people are constantly changing. urgh thats another story. well i think that the best people to even judge a couple are the couple themselves. i mean no matter what the friends, buddies and pals say, eventually the only people who know both sides of the story and the insider news. and no matter how when you have a quarrel, you hate everything for that milli-moment but then when you think about him again, u just cant help but smile at how you both are different but yet the same. i mean we watch all the love and stuff on tv like sex and the city, o.c, and what nots. it's really nice when you can actually feel the chemistry between them and they way the flirting makes your heart flutter. but in reality it is actually a somewhat fake reassurance in the belief of love overcoming all. are those all just idealistic dreams? i mean it is just a movie... a big act, playing a role. like how in sex and the city, they have amazing chemistry and it's so good! but in real life they cannot stand each other! imagine that... anyway i am off. but wait at the end of the day, i do believe in it. love that is.

because i said so! Nadz at
12:35 PM